Skip navigation! Story from Sex. Everyone has a different experience the first time they have sex.
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The secret thing you don't realize about the first time you have sex until wayyyy after it's happened is that there's no wrong way to do it. As long as it's totally consensual and safe, you're doing everything right. But that doesn't mean you're not allowed to feel nervous or even a little anxious about doing the deed for the very first time.
Ask anyone whom you feel comfortable enough with about their first time having sex. That being said, it is a part of life. The fact of the matter is, if it is your first time having sex and you are even slightly sober, it will be awkward. Pro Tip: Try laughing it off right off the bat the second you feel start to feel awkward.
We've been getting a lot of great questions about first-time sex at sexqs buzzfeed. The following pieces of advice are meant to apply to all cisgender and transgender individuals — regardless of your age, sexual orientation, or gender identity. That said, not every tip might apply to every person.
There are probably plenty of things going through your mind if you are contemplating having sex for the first time. You may be wondering if your body will change or whether it will hurt. Read on to get answers to the questions you might be wondering about before first-time sex.
Jump to navigation. This may seem like a bit of a no-brainer, but it really is the most important point of all. Are you ready?
Sometimes it seems like sex is everywhere, in songs, on TV and is all that our friends talk about! Sometimes the pressure that other people can put on us can influence this big decision. Friends might say they've done it, a partner might want to move your relationship along and some people might even tease or bully you for being a virgin. All of these things can be tough to deal with if you're not sure if you're ready or not.
Back to Sexual health. When a woman has vaginal sex for the first time, it can be a little painful. You may also have some bleeding, but this isn't always the case.